Finally, the first Girlfriend/Boyfriend topic I've seen with maturity.
Yeah, I'll be going into High School next year so it all starts happening. It did in Middle School too, but in High School they just have to take it to the next level. >_<
I've had a few girls in my life which I never had any courage to ask, but that's because I know I'ma loser, and have no chance anyway.
I'm a little on the heavy side, know more about computers than a girls feelings, and a complete nerd who works for a Hosting company with people in Britain and so forth, and Moderate a community on the iFroggy Network. I tell a girl this, and all I get is a "wtf?" and "stfu!".
Am I happy? Yes. I'm becoming a successful webmaster with connections around the world. Although
my site isn't the best I work with some of the best and most popular sites out there.
After this rant, and if you were roughly high school age, would you go out with me? NEIN.
Although I have no chance with women at this time, I do have philospohies regarding relationships.
[offtopic]I just so happen to be listening to "Amour" by Rammstein right now, which I just realized.[/offtopic]
First, a relationship is not girl/boy hopping. Some people in my school have a new bf/gf every week, which bugs me. I don't mind relationships at such a young age (14-16), but there has to actually
be a relationship.
Love at 14? Possible, but
highly unlikely. I have a crush, how do I know? You can guess. But I wouldn't think of making any moves due to the possibility of an unstable relationship. If I had to choose between asking this girl now, and possibly having an unstable relationship, or asking her in 4 years and having a fighting chance, I would pick the later. Why? Because what's the point of having a girlfriend if she dumps you in one week?
Now for some posters reactions!
Fadeproof wrote:yeh.. but its still good to have a gf/bf.. i dont have one atm though.
Absolutely agreed. Unlike some people who believe Middle/High school relationships should be wiped off the planet, I believe it's a part of growing up. I may be 14 but if I new there was someone who I had even the tiniest bit of affection for, and knew she would listen to me, what's the harm in being "bf/gf"? It's getting kids ready for the real world, yes even those bf/gf hoppers.
xHaZxMaTx wrote:What are the benefits of having a boy/girlfriend during school?
There's probably less benefits than non-benefits. But it's still a part of life. Hormones will be raging and you can't stop it. One year ago in the seventh grade I felt middle school relationships were loads of bull. But sadly my body is relentless, released these hormones and know I'm vicious in my own little nerdy way.
I still believe that because of school, I shouldn't have a girlfriend. I couldn't think of what stress I would be in with an unstable relationship with Biology regents in one week. I'd be pulling the hair out of my head. But then again, hey. I have a crush of my own.
xHaZxMaTx wrote:Call me old-fashioned, but I think that that's what really counts.
Hell yeah, I agree with you completely. And along with Fadeproof's below post yes! Having a girlfriend invloves commitment. Not beating the guys because you have one and they don't. And this is one of the major flaws of my school. People think that "bfs/gfs" are badges, not lovers. (<--ugh) Using the term "lover" very loosely of course.
Stereo, because I saw you're comment, "But we like eachother." I want to say good for you. I have no idea about your age but if you think you've found a good girl, then go at it and don't give up. Weird to be saying this from my point of view seeing I'm probably years younger than you.
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How true. This si also one reason I fear to have a relationship. Pulling from my biology notes, I feel many middle school relationships could be destroyed out of spite. Which is one reason why I am doing nothing about my current crush/love.
Stereo wrote:Oh, damn... My gf's friends found out about me and my gf... This suxxx...
Stereo, I see where you're coming from. I wouldn't want the school to know everything about my relationship, but face it. It would have happened some time. But then again, Fadeproof is right. What's wrong with people knowing? Unwanted publicity? Okay, but as long as the relationship continues you're fine.
Pabl0z wrote:Ok kids. Go find a sandbox will you.
Go find one yourself, half of the people talking in this topic have been posting more mature content than yours right there. Unless you are joking in which I can't tell, if you are sorry.
Dizzie wrote:have any of u lads ever cried over a girl?
No, but I have felt extreme depression knowing there's something I want but can't have. But that's when I listen to "Ohne Dich" by Rammstein.
(Ohne Dich=Without You)
German
Dragster wrote:It was a single-sided affection anyway
All my crushes are one of these.
It's because I feel like a loser, thus no one knows and if no one knows how can it be two-sided?
Dizzi wrote:ta. makes me feel much better knowing its not that pathetic 2 cry over someone.
I could go into Science Professor mode, but won't. But it's not pathetic to cry over someone. Well, it can get pathetic but usually isn't.
bam_bam wrote:My computer > my gf lol , computer doesnt answer back , computer doesnt complain that I dont treat it right , computer does what its told and if my computer does get out of line I can just turn it off! lol .
How friggin true.
GioDeR, congrats.
This concludes my endless quoting.
My conclusion fo the topic overall, I have crushes. One where I feel strongly about this cute thing in my school. What will I do? Nothing. I have no chance, and I don't want to risk my grades or stability.
