The BF's and GF's topic

[race_invader]

I appreciate your sympathy guys, i have had along talk to her and she has been starting to act herself again just alittle bit, she also wants to stay at my place and be with me so ive allowed that of course and that report i believe has been done she hasn't told me so yet.

you should be sad for her, not for yourself

I am sad for her, just that i am also sad coz well i could of told her not to go out except i didn't open my mouth and tell her that i didn't want her to go out.

[powerof1000]

Yell RAPE!

That's the stupidest thing i've ever seen on this site.

[TheStig]

I know what you mean Race, but what I ment was, that you can only eighter be sad, or sad for someone else, you can't be sad for yourself... that would be very weird.
But like I said I know what you mean.

[race_invader]

Oh okay i get you.
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Well her plan to stay at my house has failed most probably coz i asked her to just check if she was still staying and she said she doesn't know now since what happened she is scared. So i think she doesn't trust me atm coz of the rape.

[Porsche-AG]

Unless you were the rapist, why would she not trust you?

It's probably more to do with her not wanting to get out of her house at all.

[S2000_Skyline12]

If you got raped, I doubt you'd the most cool and collected person person in the world. And the weight of it on your mind...Sorry about it Invader

[race_invader]

It's probably more to do with her not wanting to get out of her house at all.

It could be that except she does go to work still etc.. And no im not the rapist, i live well a far distance away from her and plus thats just wrong to do that.

[Danyutz]

me and my gf just broke up last night, we had a distance relationship and we decided that it's better this way, for both of us.

[Abrams]

Yell RAPE!

That's the stupidest thing i've ever seen on this site.

signed.

[Stereo]

Wtf? I didn't write that...

[PSZeTa]

..Who else would've?

[Stereo]

My friend... he was at my house that day. -_-

Wish I could delete it. Sorry about that raceinvader.

[setsunakute]

I've been single for about 11 months now. I'm fine with it and have no interest in pursuing another relationship at this point. Not that a relationship would interfere, but I'm definitely not in the mood to give a sh** for a significant other right now. Hopefully some of you can agree?

[Danyutz]

let a relationship to ran over you .. that's the spirit

[race_invader]

Single again.. I think the whole raping thing got to her she also said "i just need to find a guy thats gonna really treat me good? now wtf! i did treat her good i always told her i love her and stuff like that wont go into detail but yeah... Don't know what i did wrong.

[Porsche-AG]

It's not your fault, girls are wierd and can be overemotional when they're in relationships for some silly reason(s).

[xHaZxMaTx]

Don't get pissed off at her for leaving you after she was raped - you have no idea what could be going through her head.
She was raped, and you're all 'boohoo pity me, my girlfriend left me.'

[speed_man]

Well, i just got a girlfriend today!

[Stereo]

CHEERS!

[Abrams]

Don't get pissed off at her for leaving you after she was raped - you have no idea what could be going through her head.
She was raped, and you're all 'boohoo pity me, my girlfriend left me.'

Tbh, race_invander should explain the matter itself more carefuly, i.e. your gf was actually raped with a full meaning under it or it was just harsh sexual harrasment? Difference can be not that big, but there is difference when you try to analyze the victims behaviour.

[race_invader]

Well my (ex) she knows abit more what happened abit better and well i cant explain since of forum rules but ill say it simple, 1 guy did front and another guy from the back, if you don't understand then well i cant explain. Oh and we are really good friends so im nor all "boo hoo" about us breaking up, im still helping her out and stuff just as friend wise.

[prince1142003]

Dude, she was raped... She will probably hate men for a while now, she might even become depressed and hate people in general. It's a memory she'll never be able to get rid of. You can't even begin to fathom the things going through her head (in fact, no one who hasn't been raped can). On the outside she may seem ok and rational, but on the inside it'll be a completely different story. Unless you feel like her actions are irrational enough to the point she's putting herself or others in danger, just let her recover.
My gf was raped when she was younger, so I have a certain amount of experience in the matter. It happened before we started dating, so I've never experienced your position, but I've seen some of the things it's done to her. I feel your pain, and I'm so sorry that something like this happened to you guys.

Sorry, just felt like I had to say something.

[race_invader]

Well we broke up of course already said it, but she isn't scared of guys i mean we only broke up 4 days ago and she already has another guy, spotted that on her msn last night. Since she has done that im lucky i decided to go to a friends bday party on Sunday.

[Stereo]

Wtf does the last sentence say? "Since she has done that im lucky i decided to go to a party..."

[race_invader]

Goddamn i mean 2 days ago we broke up i forgot to edit post..

Well ill explain more..

We broke up last Saturday and well i was going to turn down a birthday party invite last Sunday because she wasn't going but i didn't turn it down, i went and then the next day i find out she has a new bf or whatever just so quickly and well i had fun on Sunday with friends so pfft.

Ill just hush now coz i believe i really ain't making sense..
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