The BF's and GF's topic

[Danyutz]

What if your parents want grandkids? You'd kinda have to get into a relationship someday.

yeah, so? doesn't write anywhere that you have to please any expectations from parents.

single life sux

[xHaZxMaTx]

single life sux

[TheStig]

What if your parents want grandkids? You'd kinda have to get into a relationship someday.

I'll let my brother cover that

That's also a option

[Danyutz]

whaaaat? =D

[race_invader]

he is pretty much saying "Cry me a river"
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I'm not single anymore and instead of going out with a 14 or 15 yearold i asked out the most wonderful woman, she is 18. Hehe we have the same interests and she even loves Xbox 360 which im surprised, i think she is the first gf of my life to have matching things.

[TheStig]

And you where how old?

[Danyutz]

same quest as Stig

and another one .. you and the other gf, didn't had things that matched? odd

[race_invader]

I'm 16 turning 17 this year on Sept 9th.

and another one .. you and the other gf, didn't had things that matched? odd

Yep, exactly right it took me awhile for my ex when i was going out with her to get use to my fav things, after awhile she started liking them except how we broke up coz well she started to go overboard with the emo or "retarded" fashion and changed her personality there loads more.

[xHaZxMaTx]

You're not even 16.5 and you're dating an 18-year-old?

[race_invader]

Yeah, i don't care about age unless they were 64 years old or sumthin like that..

[TheStig]

wow normally girls look for older guys (not talking grandpa old) but in general not younger

[Danyutz]

You're not even 16.5 and you're dating an 18-year-old?

I don't see any problem .. good for you race_invader.

I agree with Stig, about girls dating older guys =]

[race_invader]

Thanks danyutz.

wow normally girls look for older guys (not talking grandpa old) but in general not younger

Well she said to me "Guys in her age group are d!cks" also she i asked out her just so ppl know.

[Abrams]

wow normally girls look for older guys (not talking grandpa old) but in general not younger

Im so temped to write a psychological proof about it, but in short, they do it to get their own 'status' higher then other females/males of their own age.


Oh and hi Stig

[xturbo]

wow normally girls look for older guys (not talking grandpa old) but in general not younger

Totally agree. They look for more stable relationship rather than something very "childish" or not mature, let's call it unstable. Happened to me last week...I'm 21 and I'm dating with a 18 years girl

Xturbo.

[race_invader]

Totally agree. They look for more stable relationship rather than something very "childish" or not mature, let's call it unstable.

Hey hey, watch what your saying, i know you weren't directing it at me or anything but honestly i am not childish and im very mature for my age thank you very much. Although might not seem like it on here but sentences can be mistaken in the way we are trying to talk it out in our minds.

[xturbo]

Totally agree. They look for more stable relationship rather than something very "childish" or not mature, let's call it unstable.

Hey hey, watch what your saying, i know you weren't directing it at me or anything but honestly i am not childish and im very mature for my age thank you very much. Although might not seem like it on here but sentences can be mistaken in the way we are trying to talk it out in our minds.

doh lol no bro! I'm not directing those words to you

The thing I was trying to say is that girls (as far as they tell me) don't like too much to be with guys of their age, because most of them are still kids, and that's why they look up here looking for older guys...

Sorry if you got it in that way bro, no offense and not trying to do it

Xturbo.

[race_invader]

Oh! now i know what you mean, my bad! sorry about that.

[xturbo]

No worries bro

[Porsche-AG]

You can't really blame race_invader, because I am honestly not sure whether I would want to (currently) date a girl younger than me, for the same 'childish/maturity' reason.

So I don't know if it's just me, but I'm sure there are other guys out there (possibly race_invader) who want a mature girlfriend as well.

[TheStig]

but the question is, do they want you

[race_invader]

So I don't know if it's just me, but I'm sure there are other guys out there (possibly race_invader) who want a mature girlfriend as well.

Yeah i would want a mature girlfriend, immature i really don't like.

[Porsche-AG]

but the question is, do they want you

That's the problem

But like I said, I'm fine being single.

[weedman173]

Me and my girlfriend just had a pretty big fight about something. And she said we should break up, I continued it by taking the full blame for the fight and sympathizing her for what it was about. She still wanted to break up, but I kept saying we can work it out, and now she is saying she doesn't want to break up and that we have to work it out. I'm seeing her tomorrow, and I want to know if getting her some flowers would be a good idea along with a card that shows how sorry I am for what I did. And of course I'd tell her in words too, but do you guys think it would be a good idea to get the flowers for her? She said we should just forget about the fight, cause it would be best.

[Porsche-AG]

I don't know if it would be best to just "forget" about the fight completely, but instead talk about how you got into such a fight and prevent something like that from happening in the future.

Every relationship has its fights, but if you just forget about it you'll simply repeat it in the future.

And yes, getting her flowers may be a good idea.